By Rose Peter Graham
In the theater of Nigerian politics, where power is currency and perception is everything, the unfolding drama between Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan and Senate President Godswill Akpabio is as gripping as it is controversial. We may never know the full story-after all, in matters like these, only God holds the absolute truth. But if you ask me, Natasha did herself no favors.
The Public Court Is Not the First Court
Social media, that relentless and unforgiving public tribunal, should never have been Natasha’s first port of call. The court of public opinion thrives on spectacle, not strategy. And yet, something tells me that Natasha is playing a long game-holding onto a decisive joker she intends to unveil at the right moment. Because let’s be honest: she isn’t just a beautiful woman; she is also a brilliant one. And she’s being cautious. Perhaps she has learned from past missteps, like her public clash with Reno Omokri, who swiftly turned the tables on her.
But Natasha, what exactly is your endgame? Why does it seem like calling out public figures for sexual harassment has become a side pursuit?
Power, Politics, and the Art of Negotiation
No, Natasha. No. This could have been handled differently-better. You are beautiful, intelligent, and powerful-socially, politically, even sexually. And yet, instead of leveraging your position strategically, you took the scorched-earth approach. As a woman who has clawed her way into the hallowed chambers of the Nigerian Senate, you should know that in politics, outright confrontation is rarely the smartest move.
Let’s talk about realpolitik-the kind of pragmatism that defines political longevity. If Akpabio truly made advances, a savvy woman would have turned the moment into an opportunity. Because politics, as we say, is a dirty game, and if you must play, bring your brand of soap. Did you think that publicly embarrassing the Senate President would leave him cowed? That he would roll over in defeat? That the Senate-a patriarchal institution to its core-would rally behind you in applause, chanting, “All hail the most righteous woman in Nigeria”?
Let’s be honest: in a political power play, do you truly believe you hold more electoral weight than Godswill Akpabio? The man is not just a political figure; he is an institution unto himself.
Strategy Over Emotion
Natasha, I don’t doubt that you have your reasons or even damning evidence in your arsenal. But as someone who intends to play the long game in Nigerian politics, you must ask yourself: Was this move truly in the best interest of your constituents, or was it about drawing attention to yourself? Because if the former were your priority, this would have been handled with greater finesse, not fiery public accusations.
And Akpabio? Guilty as charged. Even a blind man could tell you that. But you didn’t need to tell us. His history precedes him, many might say. Same people would as you, if you really did not foresee that he has an equally formidable amazon at home, one who would stand by his side, armed with the full weight of state machinery?
I expected more from you, Natasha. Less theatrics, more tactical patience. You are a warrior, a survivor of many battles. And every great warrior knows that timing is everything. On this one, you dropped the ball.
But I’ll wait. Because something tells me, this game isn’t over yet.
Rose Peter Graham writes in from London as an influential online personality and respected political and social commentator. She is the host of Roseonallsides.com on BEN Television UK, where she provides incisive analysis and thought-provoking commentary on current events.
28 Comments
She is nothing more than a prostitute. Political shenanigans
ReplyDeleteWow how I wish the embattled Senator Natasha appointed you as her an adviser she wouldn't have found herself in a deep political mucky water, because it's not over until it's over.
DeleteShe and Badenoch are bed fellows. She has no emotional and intelligent quotient. She accused Reno Omokri of harassment in the past. The time of the alleged offence, omokri was in the US, and he proved it with his BA ticket and pictures of his official hosts at the said date and time of the accusation. A king begged Omokri to settle out of court when he sued her for libel.
ReplyDeleteBless you for your objectivity, common sense, and the excellent analysis of the issues without the misplaced emotions many have displayed over the issue why leaving out the substantial issue of her disobeying the rule of the Senate. Excellent and enjoyable write-up.
DeleteShe is shameless and apparently doesn't respect her husband or listen to sound advise from anyone
ReplyDeleteAlso said to have accused Kayode Fayemi when he was a minister... Found to be false
ReplyDeleteApparently goes on the blackmail if she doesn't get her wishes. Her mum is Ukrainian and Dad from kogi. A serving senator taking a country palava to the UN assembly.
ReplyDeleteShe is said to have 5 kids by 5 different fathers
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ReplyDeleteIt is tragic that you are woman, wrote this piece. You said she should have negotiated, really? With what? Her privates or blackmailing Akpabio for his barbaric move? When women fall it is their fellow women that bring them down. What a shambles!
ReplyDeleteWhy can't you people grow beyond this women bringingvdown women Bullshit? So a fellow woman can't write anything anymore?
DeleteDear Rose,
ReplyDeleteAs fellow alumni of the University of Lagos, I appreciate a healthy discourse, and while I respect your opinion, I strongly disagree with your stance on Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan’s decision to speak out.
1. *A Senator, A Woman, A Voice for the People*
Natasha is not just a politician; she is a woman, a wife, and a mother. She was elected by her constituency, and like any representative, she has a duty to report back to her people. In today's digital age, social media is the most effective way to engage directly with the public without bureaucratic filters silencing the message. The very reason you and I are having this discussion is because of the method she chose—one that ensured this issue could not be buried before it even saw the light of day.
Instead of seeing this as "theatrics," I see it as bravery. Many women in politics, business, and even religious institutions suffer in silence, fearing backlash. Natasha has done what most dare not—she has spoken from within the National Assembly, demanding accountability. As a woman, I expected you to recognize the strength in that.
2. *The Nigerian Habit of Avoiding the Truth*
One of Nigeria’s biggest problems is the unwillingness to confront issues directly. Instead of supporting a woman who is using her platform to challenge the culture of silence around sexual harassment, we criticize her approach. You suggest she should have been "tactful," but why should we continue to play politics with the suffering of women?
If women keep quiet in homes, workplaces, churches, mosques, and political offices, nothing changes. Natasha is standing up for every woman who has been harassed but had no voice. She is showing them that power and influence should not shield perpetrators. You say she is a David who cannot bring down Goliath—but didn’t David win?
3. *No One Is Above the Law*
Are we saying that political heavyweights should get away with sexual harassment? I’m sure that’s not your position, but your argument implies that Akpabio is too powerful to be challenged. Should the President of Nigeria not be held accountable if found guilty of harassment? Power should never be a shield for wrongdoing.
This case is bigger than Akpabio. It’s about every powerful man who has used his position to harass, intimidate, or silence women. The law courts should determine the truth, not public perception, and I firmly believe that Natasha is ready to risk her political career for this fight. That alone speaks volumes.
4. *Justice Requires Agitation, Not Patience*
You suggest that Natasha should have been more patient, but I disagree. Women have been patient for centuries. Change does not come through silence or subtle negotiation; it comes through agitation. Every major movement against oppression—whether for civil rights, democracy, or gender equality—has required bold, sometimes theatrical, action.
Remember what Esau had to do to remove the yoke around his neck?
*"But when you grow restless, you will throw his yoke from off your neck."* (Genesis 27:40)
It is time for women to be restless. It is time for rebellion against harassment.
Finally, let me be clear: I do not assume Akpabio is guilty. He remains innocent until proven otherwise in a competent court of law. But every one of us should want to see this case tried—not just for Natasha, but for every woman who has suffered in silence.
Sincerely,
Kayode Adesiyan
Nothing to add, very well elucidated.
DeleteIt is a shame that men will always use women to tear down their womenfolk when an issue arise between both sex. Nobody should ever silence the voice of my daughters when they are victimised. Thank you for your incisive comment.
George Adams
Truly, women are their own worst enemies! Wow, imagine the horrible comments of some women on this Akpabio/Natasha saga!
DeleteWhile I believe there is more to this scandal than meets the eye, if this case were to arise in the western world, especially the US, it wouldn't be like this. Ask Bill Clinton! But then, this is in Nigeria, a patriarchal society. Hence, even some women are on the side of the alleged assailant.
Until I got to the US some decades ago, I didn't realize how crazy some things we men were saying and doing to female colleagues were. Here in the US, one has to be careful about the types of jokes made to females around us. But in Nigeria, a harassed woman MUST learn to accept every behavior from their male colleagues, and especially those superior in ranks or positions.
One politician even stated on national television that Natasha's problem was her beauty. Just imagine!
In this piece, here is a woman stating that "If Akpabio truly made advances, a savvy woman would have turned the moment into an opportunity..."
Please, what kind of "opportunities"? I guess the writer (a woman for that matter) wanted Natasha to behave like a typical female typist or secretary that's being sexually harassed in a Nigerian office environment...by turning the harassment into a quid pro quo.
This una comments fall my hand o, so much so that I don't even know what to type. Una no be Natasha na, and maybe, just maybe that's why you people aren't senators or in the senate. I come in peace o.
ReplyDeleteNa joblessness they cause all these mumu-diousness.
ReplyDeleteInteresting article. She should have handled it differently. In these types of matters moreso at high levels like this, the gathering and presentation of evidence is crucial.
ReplyDeleteIf only she had done that it would have silenced and kept the bullies at bay. Anticipation and preparation of responses is also crucial. She obviously did not expect that her female colleagues would bully her like that.
You are correct. Most people believe the Akpabio is as guilty as charged moreso as he has a history of such conduct.
Where i raised my eyebrow in the article is the bit that you wrote "instead of leveraging your position strategically, you took the scorched-earth approach".
If i am understanding that statement correctly then if she did try to use the lewd sexual advances to strategically leverage her position then she would be no better than the bullies and sends the wrong message that she is prepared to ditch her principles and do anything to gain position, influence and dare i say it more money which lets be honest is what most of them hanker after.
Good morning Rose...just to add one or two cents regarding the new Chair (Apoti) in the Senate....forgive any typos etc; no time to edit.
ReplyDeleteSuspending a fellow Senator for 6 months; stopping her salary, barring her from parading herself as a Senator locally or abroad etc as a result of arguements over change of seat........
Refusing to have an independent investigation of her sexual harrssment claim. Fellow colleagues scampering through a myriad of tv stations competing to prove who is most loyal or would could cast the worst aspersion on Natasha's character?
It is unconstitutionaln to deny the people of Kogi Senatorial representation. Even if you say she erred, you could suspend her for not more than 14 days as an earlier court judgement affirmed or for 10 days as the Senate rules stipulates...she did not steal, she was not engaged in conducts unbecoming of a Senator.
I would not bore you to list all the more serious incidents that have ocuured in the Senate chamber...from fights, to stealing the mace etc and hell never fell.
The Senate is the people's chamber and not some personal palace. They are all equal members with equal rights. All representing their various constituencies. All elected by their peoples. The office holders are priviledged officees elected by their colleagues
History would not be kind to all that have conspired to hatch this shameful conduct.
Thanks Fidelis. I understand and I share yiye sentiments. Bu I really do hope you got my point.. keeping it balance
DeleteThank you
DeleteWelldone ma!
ReplyDeleteThings are happening ooo😳
ReplyDeleteShe is too immature to be in the senate.
ReplyDeleteShe just acted like an American white women targeting Trump. Only works n the west with woke types
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ReplyDeleteSome of these comments are unbelievably degrading to not just Natasha but all female child of Nigeria but do I blame them, NO!!! I blame write ups like this that fail to put forward two facts from this case; the incessant corruption going on in the senate and the grave allegation of sexual harassment in such a high echelon in our society.
This write up wants the public to think it is supportive of Natasha but I think instead diverts. It is either you are standing for or against, there is no sitting on the fence in matters like this. There is no excuse for such a write up, especially from a female who grew up in the same society and definitely know females (if not self) in her immediate environment who would have struggled with issues like this.
What sort of strategy should Natasha have applied? Even with all the evidence in the world we all know it still will not make much difference or even matter because it is a WOMAN. Even if this was meant to draw attention to herself like this writer suggested, that attention is needed…for the female child who has remained voiceless in such matters.
As a woman who had to work twice as hard to attain her position, she deserves more.
The press is watching as a Senator, a wife, a mother’s character and accomplishments is being reduced to nothing less than an ‘asewo’ (just see comments) and do nothing but question her political prowess.
This write up also insinuates that Akpabio is too powerful. More powerful than the president of the United States? No elected government official should be more powerful for accountability. I personally cannot attest if Akpabio is guilty but the way this issue has been handled definitely makes any sensible person wonder.
Writers when do we begin to highlight that Natasha’s only crime here is being a WOMAN and how dare she in an androcentric and patriarchal society.
This was a powerful moment for women to rise up and protect the female child but again we pass on important issues.
What a shame!
I don't mean to be disrespectful to women or sarcastic about this sexual harassment allegation of Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan against Senator Akpabio.
ReplyDeleteBut is it really trending for Nigerian men to be having affair with married women so brazenly?
On This Morning show on Arise News last Monday Senator Ogunewe was blaming the harassment of Senator Natasha on her beauty. That this married woman couldn't walk past men without them winking at her. It was so amusing.
Just yesterday I read about one Lanre telling the media that he had watched eight video clips of different men having sex with his wife, which probably led to their divorce.
I really find this ludicrous that Nigerian married women are more attractive than single women.
I watched that interview too. Sen Ogunewe made some great points, but he failed woefully on the issue of sexual harassment. It's obvious he holds an outdated mentality, believing the victim is the root of the problem. They all need some form of reorientation in The Senate and House of Representatives. He also mentioned that no poor man can ever be a Senate irrespective of the poor man’s qualifications! I tire for my country
ReplyDeleteThis is how you know Nigeria is not going anywhere. When a whole SP is trying to do turth or dare with another man's wife lol
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