As love continues to fill the air, so does the age-old challenge of men and women striving to understand each other. In what promises to be an insightful series, mentor and CEO of SoundMind, Kola Adeneye, recently shared with his millions of followers a thought-provoking list: 15 Things Women Should Know About Men.


A pastor, philanthropist, and IT expert, Adeneye did not hold back in his candid observations, sparking widespread discussion and curiosity from those eager to learn more. His direct yet insightful take on the topic has generated a wave of reactions, proving just how relevant the conversation remains.


Are Men Really That Complicated?


Social media is filled with conversations suggesting that men are difficult to understand. However, the truth is far simpler—men are more straightforward than they’re often perceived to be.


So, what are the key things women may not realize about men?


1. We appreciate compliments too – Being told we’re attractive means a lot.



2. We’d love to be asked out sometimes – It’s refreshing when the effort is mutual.



3. Initiating conversation is welcome – We appreciate when you take the lead occasionally.



4. We have been conditioned to hide vulnerability – Many of us struggle with expressing emotions.



5. We can’t always be the strong ones – Emotional support is just as important for us.



6. We tend to offer solutions rather than just listen – It’s our instinct to want to fix things.



7. We experience emotions deeply – Even if we don’t always express them outwardly.



8. We sometimes need space – And it has nothing to do with how we feel about you.




9. Faking pleasure doesn’t help – It prevents true intimacy and growth in a relationship.



10. Sex isn’t always on our minds – We have a wide range of thoughts, emotions, and priorities.



11. We have insecurities too – Confidence doesn’t mean we don’t struggle with self-doubt.



12. Ignoring messages affects us too – Communication matters to us just as much.



13. We can’t read minds – If something is wrong, we need you to tell us.



14. Attraction is subjective – Many of us appreciate and admire all body types.



15. Kindness should not be mistaken for weakness – Being caring does not mean we lack strength.




Final Thoughts


Kola Adeneye’s list has sparked deep conversations about relationships and communication. As the discussion continues, one thing is clear: understanding each other is key to building stronger, healthier connections.


Happy Valentine’s Day!




© Kola Adeneye